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Russell W. Shurts's avatar

Though I never got to do what I really wanted to do with my life - be a professional basketball or tennis player - I did the next best thing. I found a career that I learned to love that always provided the time to pursue the greatest values of my life, playing sports, learning philosophy (once I found the right one), and finding the girl of my dreams to spend the rest of my life with. I didn't have the talent or physical gifts to play tennis or basketball professionally, but I was good enough to have great success doing both and to get a free college education out of it. I still played tennis into my 50's, and still play lots of golf today at 69. And it wasn't until I found Objectivism at 42 that I discovered that I had been seeking a philosophy, an understanding of my life as it relates to reality and other people, my whole life. I had just never found one that made sense. And I was lucky enough to find the right girl at 18, and we're still going strong 50 years later. It was all made possible by learning accounting and working hard to get better and better at it each day. It provided me a great paycheck, but also the great joy of purpose, accomplishment and time for all the other great things in my life. So, I may not have been Jimmy Connors or Oscar Robertson as I had hoped in my teens, but with a focus on always trying to find the best that I could out of my life, I think I probably got a better life than had I become a great and famous athlete. I've seen the lives many of them lead and are forced into because of their fame, and I wouldn't have enjoyed that at all. Instead of 'Stop that', I would recommend "Do that'- whatever it is in life that makes you truly happy (for the long term).

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Glen Agritelley's avatar

This is a great article Don. Thanks much. I especially like the comments about savoring the times when you are achieving your goals. Celebrating success is something we don’t do enough of.

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